Anxiety can be unbearable. Panic can be worse!

The experience of a panic attack can be absolutely terrifying. The recovery time following a panic attack can feel disheartening and bring on feelings of hopelessness. Having strategies to manage anxiety and panic once you start spiraling is critical.

The tips below can help not only to end panic, but to prevent it, so that you can continue to move forward without a total collapse. Try out any, or many, of these 10 tips for managing panic to try to stop spiraling and to keep yourself feeling less out of control.

10 Tips To Stop Panic Attacks

Write It Out

when racing thoughts start to come, and the fear that they carry with them escalates, you need to get them out! Writing out your anxious and racing thoughts not only helps to get them out of your head and on to paper, but it also helps you to feel more in control and to see them more clearly. They change from the vague and rushing blur to hear head to identifiable small words on a paper.

Talk to Someone You Can Trust

Both writing, and talking out your thoughts,In the same can help to release them and not have them feel so scary. It’s important that when you do share your thoughts, you share them with someone you trust. If you share your anxious thoughts and the story of what you’re going through with someone that supports and understands you, then you can quickly start feeling less isolated and afraid.

Deep Breathing

Deep breathing is the gold standard for managing panic. Deep breathing provides immediate relief to your nervous system, which can help relax your mind and body and shift you out of panic mode. Successful deep breathing includes inhaling through your nose and exhaling through your mouth and repeating this multiple times (at least 5 if you’re feeling panicky!). As you inhale, you want to practice first filling up your lungs and diaphragm with your brath. Then, as you continue breathing, and then try to work on using your inhale to fill your belly. Holding your inhales can help to release more and extend your exhales! Successful deep breathing takes practice, so try it out every morning!

The 5,4,3,2,1 Check In

This technique is great for grounding when panic hits! You’ll check in with all of your senses to bring yourself back into your body and connect to the present moment. Identify 5 things you can see and try to use an adjective to describe it (for example: pink shirt, gray wall, striped pillow, yellow pencil), 4 things you can touch (ex: suede shoe, rough wall, smooth folder, soft shirt), 3 things you can hear (ex: cars going by, the AC, your own breathing, laughter), 2 things you can smell (coffee, your deodorant, the plant, your coworkers lunch), and 1 thing you can taste (find a drink or snack, or just identify the weird taste of your own mouth).

Step Outside

Get some fresh air! Whether you're stepping into your yard, or out of the crowded room. Give yourself some space from where you're having overwhelming thoughts or feelings that are turning into panic. Your environment plays a big role in your physical and mental well being, so step away to feel less stuck and more in control!

Create Something

Getting creative is a wonderful way to help remove yourself from overwhelming thoughts and anxiety and to channel them into something new. Creativity does NOT have to mean that you are creating a gorgeous painting (although art is a wonderful way to express yourself). But, creativity is any action that is generating something new. You can embrace creativity by cooking, baking, woodworking, playing with legos/ building materials, graphic design, or even gardening.

Anxious thoughts and the accompanying rollercoaster of emotions keep you feeling constantly out of control.

Anxiety has a really cruel way of getting into your head and making you doubt everything you think you know about yourself. Your rational mind can tell you everything is just fine and your anxiety is probably just playing tricks on you. But, once it hits, you’re lost in a sea of fear and self-guilt. Your anxiety may only show up in certain places, like at work, in relationships, or in social settings. But when it does show up, it feels like it’s killing you. Everyone else may see you as doing great but you feel like your head is barely above water.

In some ways, your anxiety may feel like it’s one of your greatest strengths.

It may be the reason you work so hard and have found so much success. But, it also might be the reason you can never feel at peace. Your anxiety may also protect you. It helps you realize what are threats and challenges and hyperfocusing on them may help you overcome them. You may have started to believe that creating your worst case scenario in your head before it happens is a helpful strategy, because you basically have already experienced the worst thing that could happen, so you can’t actually be hurt. Or, you may have found that ruminating about “worst case scenarios”, “what if” thoughts, and your endless threads of guilt helps you feel control in a world that feels so out of control.

From the stomach aches you’ve had before the game, to the dread of thinking about having to go to school, to the constant fear about what’s going to happen, it’s not fair to have had to experience so much agony for so long. Just because you’ve been dealing with it for as long as you can remember, doesn’t mean you have to deal with it alone, or that it won’t get better. If your anxiety has led you to a place of hopelessness or if your cruel anxious thoughts have taken over your belief system, it’s terrifying but it’s not true. You have a chance to live more congruently. The anxiety may always be there but it doesn’t have to hold you back so much.

For those whose crippling fear holds them back…

Whether your fear prevents you from going somewhere or doing something, or it just plagues you the entire time beforehand, it’s not fair that you have to feel this way. You are so capable even if you can’t see it. Your truth about what you can do is there under all of that fear and shame.

For those with constant guilt and self-doubt at the end of the day

We can be so much more brutal to ourselves than anybody else is. If you said the wrong thing, that doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. If you made a mistake, that doesn’t mean it can’t be fixed. If you’re making up scenarios to feel guilty about, that underlying self-hatred can be let go of.

For those with an anxious attachment style…

Big changes take time and anxious attachment styles run deep. It's so frustrating to feel like you understand where your problems come from but not be able to move past them. Healing from the inside out and practicing communicating your boundaries and needs will help you shine in your relationships, just like you do in all the other areas of your life!