Navigating Disordered Eating Triggers During the Holidays, Part 2

We are over halfway into the holiday season and at this point, you may be feeling overwhelmed or anxious. Navigating disordered eating triggers is a daily effort, and the holiday stress may be making this more difficult. This week we are discussing three more strategies that can be helpful, particularly during this time of the year.

Social Media & the Pressure of Perfection

During the holidays, social media is flooded with images of perfectly styled tables, happy families, and holiday fashion. This constant stream of curated, idealized images can lead to body comparison and feelings of inadequacy. It can also bring up feelings of shame and despair.

Trigger: Body Comparison

Scrolling through social media can make you feel like your body doesn’t measure up to the "ideal" you see online, which can lead to unhealthy body image thoughts and disordered eating behaviors, like excessive dieting, exercising, or bingeing.

Strategy: Curate Your Feed

Take control of your social media experience by unfollowing or muting accounts that promote unrealistic body standards or diet culture. Follow accounts that promote body-neutrality or body-positivity and that validate your experience. Finally, try removing social media apps from your phone so it is more difficult to access them. Limiting your time on social media also allows you to be more present during your real-life holiday experiences and helps you avoid harmful messaging.

Emotional Eating

The holidays can be emotionally overwhelming. While they can bring joy, they can also bring up feelings of stress, grief, or loneliness, which may lead to emotional eating.

Trigger: Emotional Stress & Coping with Food

Food is often used as a way to cope with difficult emotions, especially during the holidays. When emotions feel unmanageable, those with disordered eating habits turn to food, dieting, weight loss, and exercise to avoid or manage the emotions. Emotional eating during the holidays is common, but it can be triggering for those who are struggling with disordered eating.

Strategy: Healthy Coping Mechanisms

When possible, take some quiet time alone to check in with your emotions. Ask yourself what you are feeling and be curious about what your emotions are telling you. If you feel overwhelmed or dysregulated, engage in coping mechanisms such as journaling, meditating, or confiding in a trusted friend or family member. Taking a walk outside is another way to recenter yourself. This is a challenging time so, above all, try and be gentle with yourself.

Focus on Appearance and “New Year, New You” Messaging

The end of the year often comes with the pressure of setting resolutions, many of which focus on body changes, weight loss, or dieting. The onslaught of “New Year, New You” messaging can make individuals feel like their worth is directly correlated to their weight or physical appearance.

Trigger: Diet Culture & Weight Loss Pressure

Media outlets often highlight quick fixes for weight loss and promote unrealistic, unhealthy beauty standards. These messages can make people feel pressured to focus on dieting, restricting food, or overexercising during and after the holidays. When disordered eating is present, these messages reinforce the tendency to focus on appearance and dieting rather than on the underlying emotional experience.

Strategy: Shift the Focus to Health, Not Appearance

Instead of making weight loss or appearance-related resolutions, focus on goals that promote overall well-being, such as regularly checking in with your emotions, practicing self-compassion, or strengthening your social connections. Embrace a more holistic approach to health by prioritizing nourishing your body with balanced meals and engaging in movement that feels good—going on walks and practicing yoga are two places to start.

Conclusion

The holidays can be a difficult time for individuals with disordered eating, but by checking in with yourself and engaging with self-care, it’s possible to navigate this season with less stress. Focus on self-compassion, social connection, and staying present in the moment. If you find that triggers become overwhelming, don’t hesitate to seek support from a trusted mental health professional.

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